You’re Not Too Late Dear Dad, I know you’re reading this at midnight. Or during your lunch break. Or in the parking lot before you walk into the house, trying to figure...
Read MoreBefore I Had a Credential, I Had a Calling Before I was Dr. Clay, I was Captain Lessor-USAF. No PhD. No license. No program. No book. A guy in his twenties proudly...
Read MoreWhen Dad Is in the House but Not in the Room When people hear the words “father wound,” they think of the absent father. The dad who left. The dad in...
Read MoreWhy Your Son Is Studying Every Man in the Room There’s a boy in every classroom, every dugout, every youth group who is doing something the adults around him don’t...
Read MoreA Personal Essay My father taught me how to be a man. Just not the way he intended. He taught me by getting everything wrong. Russell Lessor was a drinker. A hitter. A...
Read MoreIt’s the question that stops every man in his tracks. I’ve heard it hundreds of times—in therapy sessions, in men’s groups, in quiet conversations after workshops. The...
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